What Products Should I Use On My Hair?!?

Ok, so i have thick,curly,wavy hair and I'm thinking about switching up the products I use. I'm looking for something that will help get rid of my frizz. So i deciding on whether I should use Blue Magic Coconut Oil ( it contains petroleum) or should i use Carol's daughter Mimosa Hair honey, ( which is pretty much all natural). I feel like if i choose the Carol's daughter one my hair is still going to be frizzy and hard to manage whereas the Blue Magic seems like it's really going to have my hair under control because it has petroleum.And yes I know petroleum is bad for the hair but I REALLY don't care. So which one should I choose??